Doesnt matter how long youve known someone

Be B eautiful : You should treat everyone who comes into your life with kindness because you never know what role that person is meant to play in your life. Many people will come into your life and it will be temporary, but I bet if you think back on it- good, bad, or ugly they helped you or taught you something along the way.

Be A uthentic : True friendship is hard to find so when you do, it should be cherished. You can meet someone tomorrow who becomes your best friend for the rest of your adult life and that person you knew since junior high becomes a stranger.

Be D etermined : As a B. D Girl you give off this attractive energy that draws people to you. Everyone wants to be your friend. But guess what? Not everyone can or deserves to be. I attempted suicide less than 2 weeks ago. This website is incredible! I believe it has changed my life. Reblogged this on yen4n and commented: a good enlighthening post on friendship and basically the people you meet in ur life. Great post! You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google account.

You are commenting using your Twitter account. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email. Are the bad times more frequent than the good?

Are they less frequent, but nevertheless still too frequent? Great friends always consider how you may feel in a situation and will opt not to make you feel uncomfortable or unhappy whenever possible. This is what friendship is — one person offering to help and then the other accepting that help.

Accepting help — for starters — shows that you trust them, to a certain degree. It also puts a deposit into the favor-bank; their offering to help means, again only to a degree, that they trust you to return the favor one day.

Helping one another is a spoken contract between two individuals. One that relies entirely on trust. Such agreements usually only occur between good friends. The truth is that every person who enters your life takes away from it in some shape or form. That does not mean that you should be losing. On the contrary, friendships exist so that the total happiness is higher than were the individuals on their own. A utilitarian view, yes, but a logical one.

If your life is better with someone in your life than it is without them in your life, then they are friends worth having. This can be difficult to judge, as we are biased individuals, but objectivity can be accomplished.

You just have to be very honest with yourself and smart in the way you imagine life without them. If you ever believe your life to be worse off because of someone then you need to separate yourself from that person. Photo Courtesy: Tumblr.

By Paul Hudson. Here are a few factors to consider: 1. How much do you enjoy spending time with them?